Good morning world!!!!

I had a day of revelations yesterday. All my suspicions and theories of the last year and a half were confirmed. I lived with a functioning pathological liar and narcissist. 

What he has done to me, he did to his first wife twenty-two years ago. 
 He's got problems and I wish he would go get some help, but he believes all of his lies. I'm sorry that I was the target of his manipulation because it would have been interesting to watch this whole saga unfold as an observer.

I'm actually relieved that it's out. What I'm most upset about is that he put Jane in the middle of this, probably hoping that she would spill the beans so he didn't have to. He is a coward.

It's a woman he went to high school with who has been sending Christmas cards to us since we were married. She's going through a divorce - - probably prompted by their reconnection, and she has two or three boys. I don't know if they had been in communication before he went to Iraq, but he did admit that they exchanged "a couple emails" while he was in Iraq.

The opportunities to tell the truth, to right a wrong, but he is just incapable of doing the right thing. He even admitted to me recently that he can't do the right thing.